tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949757471069963995.post8718597389131514692..comments2023-07-28T02:56:22.234-06:00Comments on In Her Own Words: The Harder the Road the Sweeter the RewardKellihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06539229078100487308noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949757471069963995.post-62519118568493924942010-08-13T11:24:24.990-06:002010-08-13T11:24:24.990-06:00You don't know me, and I don't know you, b...You don't know me, and I don't know you, but I found your blog through "The Girl" (she and I have both had micro preemies). Anyway, I don't want to presume, as a perfect stranger, to have all the answers . . . but if I can give you permission to experience grief, I would give it to a thousand times. Your feelings are real and valid. <br /><br />I just wanted to say that one thing I learned with my NICU experience is that losing an expectation is just as painful as losing a person that you know and love. It is not somehow "less" of a loss. Losing hopes and dreams is extremely painful, too, and allowing yourself to pass THROUGH the feelings is the best thing you can do.Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16919556200595362442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949757471069963995.post-16614414780421226702010-08-09T12:42:56.236-06:002010-08-09T12:42:56.236-06:00I am so sorry. My heart is with you. You words are...I am so sorry. My heart is with you. You words are so beautiful and comapssionate for other people. Thank goodness for the gospel in our life remember you will have the chance to hold that baby in your arms someday. I wish I was with there you. Come me if there is anything I can do.Being An Allredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08702341220173859194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949757471069963995.post-72207838311591864132010-08-08T19:59:04.190-06:002010-08-08T19:59:04.190-06:00I had no idea you were going going through all thi...I had no idea you were going going through all this. I am so sorry. I just love you and Brock so much.Shelesehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08152483165987676235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949757471069963995.post-74230667122590699532010-07-29T20:43:16.935-06:002010-07-29T20:43:16.935-06:00This might sound silly but wow Kelli you are such ...This might sound silly but wow Kelli you are such an amazing writer. <br />I can't wait to meet Grey's new baby shisher! I'm always here for you and I love you lots!Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08989406764421695007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949757471069963995.post-83107329097027212412010-07-29T19:12:58.316-06:002010-07-29T19:12:58.316-06:00Oh Kelli! I'm sorry. Thank you for sharing you...Oh Kelli! I'm sorry. Thank you for sharing your experience, it was a beautiful post. I wish you all the best in the future and trying agian. Sometimes we need to be reminded how special and precious life is. You are wonderful and inspiring!Nick and Whithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16462115803782864663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949757471069963995.post-303229238798806882010-07-28T15:10:03.407-06:002010-07-28T15:10:03.407-06:00i have too much to say. therefore i will limit to ...i have too much to say. therefore i will limit to i am so sorry and will give you a hug on friday.Candida Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15640992277788752294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949757471069963995.post-34071018076156278242010-07-27T16:30:47.954-06:002010-07-27T16:30:47.954-06:00Kelli, I know how you feel. I had a miscarriage l...Kelli, I know how you feel. I had a miscarriage last November at about 5 or 6 weeks as well. I was surprised at how sad I felt when I had only known I was pregnant for a couple of weeks. I shed A LOT of tears, and even felt guilty for feeling so sad as well, since I know people experience so much worse. But that really doesn't matter at all! You grieve how you need to grieve, and soon you will feel hope and excitement with the knowledge that you WILL get pregnant again when the time is right. Because you will! I'm proof of that. I know it's hard to be patient after a miscarriage too. Just find ways to distract yourself, enjoy your family and say lots of prayers, and you'll be pregnant again before you know it! Love ya!Molly Riverahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10857402484515025781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949757471069963995.post-7977531450172064202010-07-27T15:06:10.756-06:002010-07-27T15:06:10.756-06:00Kelli, I am so so sorry!. Reading your post made m...Kelli, I am so so sorry!. Reading your post made me cry, it just broke my heart.. Jer's cousin also recently had a miscarriage & we wondered how that would feel or effect the person since It was only a couple month's along. So thank you for sharing, because sometimes it is so hard to truly know how that would feel. I know there are more cute little babies that will come to you, because you are such a wonderful momma. I love you Kell & you will be in our prayers as well.Cassandra Potter Kemphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09725750992947466915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949757471069963995.post-79247633718631813502010-07-27T13:06:12.854-06:002010-07-27T13:06:12.854-06:00I wish it didn't seem so trite to say I'm ...I wish it didn't seem so trite to say I'm sorry, but it really does break my heart to hear about your struggle. And just because lots of women have miscarriages doesn't make it any less devastating. For now, it's okay to be sad and just cuddle with Brock and Grey. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.Briawnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10906350363147115828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949757471069963995.post-50008258300064203342010-07-27T09:16:28.450-06:002010-07-27T09:16:28.450-06:00Kelli,
I am so sorry. Life can be really hard som...Kelli,<br />I am so sorry. Life can be really hard sometimes - especially when the thing you desire the most is a righteous desire and you can't understand why it's being denied. Again, I am so sorry. If I lived nearby, I'd give you a hug :)Heather -https://www.blogger.com/profile/05517440361441968160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949757471069963995.post-81958340898002167232010-07-26T17:52:16.958-06:002010-07-26T17:52:16.958-06:00Kelli,
I am so sorry. That post was so touching. ...Kelli,<br />I am so sorry. That post was so touching. I'm sure it was difficult to write, but thank you for sharing that. I can't imagine how you are feeling right now. Just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you and your family.Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10743157598171160735noreply@blogger.com